“He threw up against the wall hoping that something would stick,” she says.“A dozen of his favorite movies, 17 of his favorite bands, a million examples of what he liked to eat, read, do. ’ it’s obvious all he wants to do is porn chat,” says Wendy.“Just because someone looks cool and has a good sense of humor doesn’t mean that a woman who clearly states, “I’m looking for marriage and children” is going to respond well to you … ’ doesn’t cut it, but something like, ‘I can’t believe you met Ryan Gosling!It doesn’t matter if you’re in your 20s and you’re interested in a woman in her 40s, but if the person you’re contacting clearly says in her profile that she’s looking for someone 35 to 45, and you aren’t even close, again, don’t waste your time, and don’t waste hers.” Next: Making contact [pagebreak] Bearing the Cardinal Rule in mind, once you’ve found the potential girl of your dreams and you’re ready to make contact, Robinson advises that you treat your initial message like an opening line at a bar. Was it hard to form sentences around someone so attractive?As always, as humanity (in part, at least) moves gradually away from oldschool values, science eventually catches up with some proof or other to validate something people with common sense already know to be true. Apparently women are just as programmed to have multiple partners as men (and fruit flies).Science approves this message, just like it recently acknowledged the fact that bisexuals exist.
She recalls a case of one who regaled her with an e-missive that went on paragraph after paragraph.
Next, pay attention to the major parameters of what your potential date is looking for, and honor them.
“What I would honestly tell you, flat out, is that just because don’t care,” says Wendy.
Given the many opinions and – ahem – constant evolution of the Internet dating scene, who better than a success story to help guide you through the process, its potential – and many – pitfalls?
Before we get started, a hopeful word for skeptics and beginners.
OK, so if, like me, you’ve heard all about how men are programmed to “cheat” by nature and women are the homemakers who are programmed to stay at home with one man and the kids, then you may be interested in this little bit of information, which I’d like to file deeply in the WTF pile.