She wasn't the first Asian girl I had seen, but it felt like the whole rest of the world disappeared, like I witnessed beauty for the first time. For many years, I noticed that preference for Asians, but kept dismissing it. Asian, especially Korean, features attract me - “ both nothing specific and everything together. Because it feels good to open up with someone, to be myself, I try to get to know women to whom I am attracted. Do the people you find yourself attracted to have certain characteristics? ) women attraction can come from height, profession, level of success, or power. For me, the people I happen to find myself attracted to are Asian women.
I fell in love with a white girl, who was for a few years everything to me. Later, in college, people who noticed my preference joked about it, generally making me feel embarrassed and ashamed. I got over the feeling of racism when I realized the preference wasn't a judgment. My preference feels no more racist than being interested in women feels sexist. Do you like to be with people to whom you can open up and be yourself? I am not attracted to them because they or their parents or families are from the continent of Asia or because of any cultural heritage.
Asiance readers must get approached by guys like me and it must be hard to understand the behavior, I imagine it would frustrate and annoy you if you don't understand it.
This article is supposed to raise the level of understanding. Talking openly about the topic is hard because of the tone I often hear, as in the terms Asian Fetish or Yellow Fever.
Fetish means you substitute an object for a person. If you've been approached by many white guys, you may feel they see you as an object or they are crazy.
In the long run, a relationship depends on how the two people relate regardless of the initial attraction. I am attracted to all Asian women, or if a woman is Asian I will be attracted to her.
In this regard, I relate to the same things as anyone: personality, a sense of humor, common interests, common backgrounds, and so on. Just because a woman is Asian does not mean I will like her or find her attractive. I was crazy about Esther because I was attracted to Koreans, not the other way around.
If they couldn't get white women, they'd have to settle for non-white women. I try to understand people and why they would think these things.